I am 43 yrs . old. My spouse and I were together for seventeen years. Not long ago I recognized that we identify as male. We have long presented physically as a genderqueer female. He revealed that he is not attracted to males when I explained my feelings to my cis male partner. He will not mind or maybe prefers a female that is genderqueer-presenting but he informs me the “physique” has to be feminine. There were exchanges that are emotional us about it. We should remain together but my real presentation has grown to become a problem. The main point here being that i do want to be actually male. He has warned me personally if I become physically male that he will no longer feel attracted to me sexually. We’d be just loving coparents and buddies in place of loving coparents and intimate lovers. We have trouble thinking that anybody really could possibly be entirely drawn to only one real presentation kind absent societal stress.
He’s less adventurous regarding intercourse than me personally and seemingly have not as of a sexual interest than me personally also. But as a result of my increased feelings of confidence and well-being, our company is having more intercourse now than previously. He generally seems to love this particular. But If only he’d start as much as more choices than “cis hetero vanilla” sex. Continue reading →